Effects of Gossip

Friends who Gossip When friends gossip about you, it can hit you hard. I’ve sat and listened as people gossiped about me and about each other. I’ve seen my ‘friends’ asking me questions only to see if I’d tell the “truth” they thought they knew. I’ve seen my ‘friends’ tell me secrets their friends confided…

Stay True to Yourself

Today’s encouragement: Keep you head up, eyes on your own spiritual growth, hears open to the Lord rather than to gossip and feet on the path. Stay true to yourself because this world is filled with insecure bullies who’d rather see you become weak, instead of working on being secure about themselves. Be resilient, be…

Baal-god vs Jehovah-God

It would be great if you have read 1 Kings 18 but if not, I hope you will be able to follow.  Elijah goes to King Ahab and tells him to call all the people and all 450 Baal priests.  He asks them to choose whom they’ll serve, whether God or Baal.  The people said…

10 Years Ago… Presently…

I took the pic below 10 years ago and I loved it! I still love it. The good thing about 10 years ago is that it’s the point immediately after I started to change my negative views about myself.  Since then, I can’t say I’ve changed much, I’d rather say I got more refined over…

Parts of Me

The raw truth is that I’m not consistently me. Sometimes I like people, and then I don’t. There are people I get happy to see calling or messaging me. Yet there are others that cause me to groan when I see their name pop up. I’ll get extremely happy to see some people happy and…

My first compliment for 2019 was 💥💥

My first compliment for 2019 was   ! I got dressed in, what I think is, my simplest outfit (see image below) and added a scarf to the ensemble. I had donned my shades as I had to go on the road to buy something. Simple look So I’m walking to my destination…  No compliments whatsoever came…

Some times, I don’t believe…

I sit in church and I hear the words, “God is faithful”. And my response is, “meh”. Some times it is hard to believe that he is a faithful God. The words just pass right by me like a stranger would on the road. You see, sometimes, I don’t believe…. After all that I’ve been…

This God — His Way is Perfect

This God—his way is perfect; the word of the Lord proves true; he is a shield for all those who take refuge in him. Psalms 18:30 ESV There are times when things change in our lives and in our plans and we wonder if God is really looking out for our best interest. But his…

How to handle singleness as a young adult (Part 3)

Let’s recap Part 2, the state of singleness is the perfect time to 1. Heal and be complete, 2. Learn about ourselves, and 3. Walk in our purposes. Striving to walk in purpose is the reason I wake up every-day knowing I have a long list of things to do: Write blogs Record videos Plan…

How to handle singleness as a young adult (Part 2)

Serve God with JOY. Read Part 1 here. I get up every-day and my mind is on how I can please God. It’s all about talking to him for direction. However, some mornings, I find myself thinking about a particular individual but that only leaves me feeling frustrated. Therefore, what I’ve decided to do is…